How to Get Girlfriend Quickly?
If you’ve been single for a while, you might be wondering how you can land a girlfriend—and fast. While there’s no miraculous way to make a girl fall in love with you, there are a few ways you can put yourself out there and set yourself up for success. Keep reading to learn where you can meet potential dates and how you can approach them to ask them out.
Dating apps, mutual friends, clubs, and social media are all great ways to meet new people (like future girlfriends, for instance!). If you hit it off with a girl, ask her on a date. Keep building your connection and when you feel ready, ask her to be your girlfriend. If it doesn't work out, don't get discouraged. Instead, get back out there and try again.
1. Ask a friend to set you up
Your friends might know a few single people you could talk to. If your friends don’t already know, tell them that you’re single and ready to mingle. They might be able to set you up with a friend, classmate, or coworker who’s also living the single life. You could also ask your family members if they know any single girls you could reach out to.
2. Talk to people on social media
You can reconnect with old friends or reach out to new ones. If you see someone cute on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter, try reaching out via DM to start a conversation. As you two chat, you might be able to get her number and then eventually ask her out. If you already know her, try starting the conversation with something like, “Hey! Remember me? I think we had English class together in high school.” If you don’t know her, try something like, “Hey, you seem really cool! I love that new pic you just posted.”
3. Try dating apps
Connect with other single people looking for love. Try downloading Tinder, Bumble, Coffee meets Bagel, or Hinge to start conversations with girls in your area. If you see someone that you like, send them a message to get a conversation going.
You can get a good conversation going on a dating app by talking about something they put in their profile or their bio. If you see that they’ve been skydiving before, try something like, “I’ve always wanted to go skydiving! Was it super scary?”
4. Join a new group or club
Get in touch with like-minded people in your area. If you have a hobby, try searching for clubs or meetup groups for your specific activity. Or, try out something new by joining a club you’ve never heard of before. You’re sure to meet some cool people, and you’ll at least make new friends out of the experience. Try looking for groups like this on Facebook or NextDoor.
5. Approach girls in public
It sounds scary, but it can help you meet new people fast. If you spot a cute girl out in public, feel free to go up to her and start chatting. If you aren't sure what to say, try commenting on something around you. Then, let the conversation flow from there.
For instance, if you’re at a coffee shop, you might say, “I always get the same vanilla latte. What’s your drink order? I’m thinking of mixing it up.” Some women might not want to be approached in public, which is fine. If the girl you’re talking to isn’t responding or looks uncomfortable, don’t push it.
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